Looking In The Mirror Of Another Person Can Bring Love, Healing, Awakening

I recently took an inventory of my 5 closest friends.  They mirrored something back to me that I did not see before within myself.  Did I like what I saw?  No.  But looking at their non-positive traits forced me to look within my own self to see my own non-positive traits and my shadow, hidden self of stuff I could not see.  I could not see this stuff within me, because I was deep in the mud of life and relating to them and myself.   I have been fortunate to have healthy, wealthy, wise, hard working friends – like me.  

     What a couple of them mirrored to me is my anger and rage at the break up of this long term marriage I had invested emotionally in.  The marriage also left me in almost financial straits – but I look at it this way:  I am back in my early 20’s building my life, investing, working, relating to family and looking for a house to buy – again.  I am lucky, blessed and fortunate to have strong family bonds, friends, the ability to re-educate myself – by going to massage school and obtaining a steady massage job.  Than there is always the writing and creating of art which feed my soul.

      I am also back, living with my parents, who are elderly and dealing with dad who has Parkinsons and a mom with frustration and expressing rage, when she is triggered.  I did not remember mom’s rage and anger spewing while growing up but clearly saw this mirrored to me the other night.  Since I do not express anger or rage – other people have mirrored this to me.  God brought me back to the original source, my parents, where my original wound of not trusting and picking friends, partners, lovers and spouses who rage or have unexpressed rage within.  What are your friends mirroring to you?  http://www.katkemm.com  katkemm®  How To Feel And Understand Love Attraction,  Send Love.. The Unseen Realm Needs Love Too!,  Carcassonne,  Oracle At Delphi,  Magi’s Of Genghis Kahn,  Romantic Love..Nourishes Humanities Evolution (Fall 2014)

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Lineage, Ancestors and Their View of Romantic Love

The fastest and best way to find out how you will relate to your romantic love partner is through the visual lens of how your own ancestors related in romantic love.  Nine times out of ten, the ancestors shared some sort of feeling or love attraction toward their partner and with that feeling – “married – legally”, had children, who had children and on and on.  Ask yourself, “How did my ancestors come to love each other?”  “How did my ancestors love each other?”  “Was their love pure?”  OR “Was their love associated with pain, chemical dependency, or something negative such as verbal abuse or physical abuse?”  OR was their union based on survival and they both grew to love one another.  Was their emotional intimacy between your ancestors.  Looking back on the ancestors to see how they loved will help you in understanding how you love.  The most important question to ask yourself, while looking through the ancestral romantic love relationships is…”Did they love themselves enough to eat good food, take care of their physical health, attend university for education, keep their families, homes, children, farms, etc. in good health?”  OR was there chemical dependency in the ancestral love?  

      If there was chemical dependency, there was a wound.  The wound of pain, the ancestors were trying to numb.  This wound could have carried itself far into the future where you are now, trying to heal that wound of love, romantic love, the love for yourself and who you are in relationship to this whole planet earth humans stand on.  For me?  My example?  My ancestors were from Norway, the vikings where they go way back to the raids.  Was there a wound?  Yes, and there was chemical dependency.   The vikings did not have the church bossing them around when they listened to the wind and the nature gods directing them to leave their homes and families in search of the coins and wealth they needed to sustain themselves in the growing world of money.  My ancestors wounds came from the restriction of the church and the negative abuse they received consequent to their actions in the world.  I think I would start drinking alcohol too, if some guy in a dark robe, who did not marry or have romantic love in his life, started bossing me around on how to live my life, or I would be killed.  I forgive my ancestors for alcohol abuse and applaud their courage for standing up to verbal and physical abuse and looking at their lives have helped me in my romantic love attractions.  Thank you ancestors.  www.katkemm.com 

Remaining the Eagle in Flight

While you are in the feeling of Romantic Love, it is important for you to remain the Eagle in flight, built in fierce love and focus, and keeping the vision on what allows you to spread your wings and fly.  We are in Quantum worlds, and everything manifests faster – so when we learn how to harness the mind over the heart and step into owning the inner passion within –  then our worlds flow.  Anything or Anyone that does not make you feel alive can be let go – because it does not serve you and will not allow your wings to spread out so you can keep flying as the Eagle.  

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Invisible Forces

There are invisible forces of good guiding and protecting you with the next right action.  Some times in an intimate love relationship, we question, WHY – We attracted this other person to us. The invisible forces of good have brought you together.   The unseen movements of spirit are working for your good.   

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Romantic Spell

A prayer from the heart, spoken in earnest, heartfelt sincerity and released to the heavens, will be heard one hundred times more than a prayer said with the intent to CONTROL.

Romantic Spells can happen between two people, especially if an intimate physical connection has occurred.  If this physical intimate connection has taken place, this creates a bond between the two people, souls, within the unseen realm.  Webs of cord-like substance connect the two bodies.  Through these cords, one of the parties can rehearse an intention of keeping the two together.  This creates a romantic spell, resulting in blocking the forward movement of BOTH parties.  The feeling that accompanies this type of spell is confusion, the feeling of being stuck in the realm of love attraction, repeatedly attracting the wrong type of love, and the feeling of having a closed heart to attracting the most delicious romantic love to you.

Kat Kemm is the author of Send Love..The Unseen Realm Needs Love Too!

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